visiting Akiff

this is a very long backdated entry. my fault.
no time+so many kepochis+internet down = lambat publish

anyways, this is my beloved Angah Yan's 1st bb.
named Wan Muhammad Akiff.
Born on 23rd Aug 2007 and he was 3.7kg.
Akiff means focus.

I like the meaning of his name.
Simple, meaningful and straight to the point.

Pandai bb Akiff ni kuar same date wit mama dia.. :) bukan same bday...same birth date.
mamanya bday 23rd Oct.

this is Akiff. look at this charming lil boy. mcm tau2 je org nak amik gamba dia. bukak mata siap.dalam pantang lagi tau waktu ni...

ni ade selingan sikit lah... this is Azam & Shasha. well, Azam belongs to Adik and Shasha belongs to Shazul. ahhahahaha!

and of course, that is us. shazul aka kajol wit shasha, adik,angah wit akiff and me.

haa... ni pulak wit mom.

though there's a lot of dugaan yg angah had to went tru, Alhamdulillah... its all gone.

like i said angah... biar susah dulu, senang kemudian, InsyaAllah...

i miss all of them so much. we are already like families.

they've been there for me tru my ups & downs in uni.

my one and only hope... we'll stay sisters forever, here and the hereafter.

and dear Akiff, u are so lucky to have a mother like ur mama. she's one strong lady. i hope, when u grow up, u'll make her proud and took great care of her.

rindu ngan budak yg sorang nih...

received this kat friendster...

Nonaku_Shazmin
Posted 29/11/2007 08:55
aluuuuuu.. i'm back from BTN.. hehehehe..
miss u much... x sabar nak abis KISSM...

yes, myn baru balik BTN.
dia demam.
kaki dia bengkak.
nasib baik, hati dia x bengkak sangat.

apa pun, it has come to the end kat babe...
c u soon...
real soon....

insulting? is that the best way u treat ur customer?? - PART II

Farezah went to Kamdar during lunch hour to meet the manager, Mr. Parish.
He's a Pakistani.
He speaks english, Alhamdulillah.

So, they discuss.
Parish gve Farezah few options of solutions:

1. To return the material, take other things but still, no cash return.
not encourage. kalau dapat cash balik, lain lah kan?

2. Take something else, on the spot. - in a certain limit, of course.
eton was not around.if not, dah kena rembat dah.

3. Next visit, any purchase, will be discounted.
we choose this one. Farezah siap amik no hp Parish, so that bole call dia to make sure he's
around time nak shopping tu nanti.

Next discussion. Remember bimbo? haaa...kan dah kata, don't mess with farezah...Parish said dat he will talk to bimbo about this.
Farezah said, she wants bimbo to be given a warning letter. I love u babe!
Terkejut jugak la si Parish kan... amik ko!
Parish pun kata lah yg if issue warning letter, it will involve HR and nanti ade inquiry bagai. Parish tak nak susahkan Farezah la, coz dia maybe akan kena panggil as a witness.
What did my beautiful friend answer??
"Me & my friends don't mind.Just tell us when and where." U GO GIRL!

so anyways, dats about it lah.
lega lah jugak dengar... but, just for the record, bimbo definitely takkan terlepas begitu saje.

model jalanan

was on my way nak g pantry amik air...

si nick tgh pegang camera...

dia pun snap2...

aku pun sengih2 je lah...

:P

insulting? is that the best way u treat ur customer??

ok. this is going to be quite long.

went to midval wt eza & eton yesterday.
purpose? to find a material for shifa's wedding.
not for me, i've settled mine..remember??

so, we went here.
our aim is to get reception baju for both eza & TM(as they will become ifa&AE's pengapits) and also a matching material for eton's top.

at the moment we are at this satin's material corner, we are very delighted that we saw a very match and perfect hue for eton's top and it is only RM5.80 per meter. so, we call the assistance there and ask her help for a 2.5meter piece. she pulls the material, shift it to the next shelf and start cutting.

we are very happy and go on with the quest for eza & TM.

we found a very nice kebaya-blouse for eza and very beautiful matching material to match with. we also managed to find a very nice baju melayu for TM.

ok, now, to the chashier we go.

eton went 1st.
the girl punch in the price and its RM30++.

eton:babe, harga dia tadi RM5.80 p/meter kan? kalau 2.5meter berapa eh?
me: should be around RM18.
eton to that girl: dik, ni bukan harga dia, adik dh silap punch nih.
that girl: ni kan tulis kat sini.this is the price, kak.
eton to girl: bukan..akak ingat harga dia.

so, eton & me went back to the shelf and checked. guess what? remember i told u about she pulls the material and shift it to the next shelf? its a shelf of RM12.90 per meter material.

wrong 1: she did not advise us that the material is RM12.90 p/meter not RM5.80 p/meter.
lesson 1: she should have educate the customer, no?

note yer... the shelf and the cashier counter is quite jauh.
so, back to the counter we go. farezah was not around.she went to the ATM to withdraw some money.
as we walked back to the counter, they show us some 'how was it' expression and both of us nodded (we nod because we confirmed that we saw that RM12.90 p/meter tag).
and, the girl punch it straight away and eton pun mcm trus bagi duit. while, she is still talking to
me.
eton is quite reluctant actually.
me, too.

wrong 2: we pay for the price.we shouldn't.
lesson 2: think PROPERLY before u pay.even 2hours standing there.

farezah is back, and she pays hers.
eton decided to return the material and ask for money back/compensation.
farezah asked bout the situation and she talked very nicely and politely to the cashier, the material cutter girl and the other girl.

material cutter girl: kak, polisi kami disini, kain yg dh kena potong, tak boleh nak return dah.
farezah: ok, tapi kenapa harga misleading? and kenapa x advise we all tadi.mmg salah we all, we all dh bayar, but, ade x cara lain yg u boleh buat to atleast compensate the price. bg discount ker..apa ker?
material cutter girl: saya ingat, kakak yg alih kan kain tu?
me: we didn't even lift the thing.we all just tarik the kain untuk tgk matching or not and we all terus panggil u. kenapa u accuse we all alih kan kain tu?
material cutter: saya ingat akak tau and akak yg alihkan kain tu.

at this point, all of us started to bengang already.

me: we all tak keje sini, tak de sbb kenapa we all nak alih kan kain tu.
material cutter girl: saya tau, akak x keje sini.tapi, saya ingat akak yg alih kan kain tu.

korang rasa, dia nih reti bahasa ke tak????

farezah: siapa in charge sini? boleh tak saya nk jumpa person in charge.

here comes the material cutter girl with a bimbo.

bimbo: apa masalahnya ni. kain, kalau dh potong, mmg x boleh return.
farezah: don't talk to me wit such intonation. i talked nicely. dont make me do something bad.
bimbo: ok, skrng ni nak suruh we all buat apa? apa solutionnya?
farezah: kitaorg faham, benda dh berlaku. tapi, benda tu misleading. salah we all, we all bayar. so, sapa yg ade authority maybe boleh kasi compensation to us. a discount maybe.
bimbo: nak tuka harga mcm mana? tak de sapa ade authority.eleh, bukan banyak pun. 2 meter setengah jer. apa yg yg kecoh sangat?
me: he's insulting us. stop talking to him and lets just ask for the manager.
bimbo: manager tak de. esok baru ade.
farezah: ok, gve me the details. apa nama dia, apa contact number dia, apa nama u?
bimbo:sham.mohd sham.nak IC no ker? (with such a slut intonation)
farezah: baik bg no hp sekali.
bimbo: no hp x bole, private.
me: IC x private???? bodo...

wrong 3: don't insult ur customer.even, they are wrong.these people really need a communication lesson.
lesson 3:bdk bimbo tu mmg nak mampos la.

we walked out from here dengan hati yg bengkak.
especially eton.

of we go to food junction to have dinner.
eton x makan.
sbb sakit hati.

we talked and bitch around for a while till shifa ring us up.
she's somewhere near and will come to peek us.

went to Carrefour.
cari barang2 nak wat bunga sabun.
pastu... met ifa&AE kat TOMEI.
fighting over a suasa & a platinum.
emph.. lets not go there k?

soon after, off we go.

so again, whats with the rudeness?
we know our fault.we admit it.
but, u cant accuse us shifting the thing all over again and again. - mmg celaka mulut budak nih.
and also, whats with the insult? - mmg bdk ni x kenal farezah lagi.silap2, melayang la keje ko.

terjumpa gamba lama

jangan gossip yer.. nanti ngamuk lak si *yezzer*.

ni gamba ngan colleague, nama dia lim hoe yin.
i like this picture sbb kelaka.
lim is a senior manager here, in my dept.
dia ni lawak lah.and a very good photographer.
:)
oh lagi satu... dia selalu kata dia handsome.... hahaahahahahah!
gamba ni was taken back in 2006.ade secret admirer lim kasi bunga teddy tu kat dia.
jgn main2...ramai peminat nih...

during lunch

nothing happen.
just busy browsing tru few blogs that i am interested in.
played LINGO wit kak nita.
a malay LINGO.
we are so pandai. :)

i missed my babes.
i missed my twins.
i missed *yezzer*.

i am sad to know that someone read my ex-blogs and simply run into conclusion and declare evrything upfront.

in life, we need space.
we need someone to talk to.
we need a shoulder to cry on.

yes, i have my babes, my twins & my *yezzer*...
but, i don't what to burden my lovelings.

so, i blog.
it's just how i felt.
it got nothing wit any other party.

but, y? people missuse it?

yeah, u got a point there...
if its personal, than, don't blog.

but, nak turn to who lagi?

even my prayers ain't the same no more.
i've lost my kekusyukan in praying since.... (i cant mention, kang issue lagik)

i have a room.
but, the room is not mine anymore.

i can't simply enter people's room.
but, people in and out my room like SELAMBA.

and yes, i am 28 years old.

hey mr cloudy... have u seen mr sunshine?

dear mr cloudy
have u seen mr sunshine?

dear mr cloudy
i miss mr sunshine

dear mr cloudy
i like ur weather

dear mr cloudy
pls don't let go

i need mr sunshine and a little touch of u, mr cloudy
but i don't need to see or feel mr storm...

rindu...

rindu dgn derang nih... :(

latest craft

on sunday, started the hantaran for Adik's wedding. my last task for her wedding.previously, i did the guest goodies, for merenjis, for meja pengantin and now, the last task...the hantaran.

her wedding will be in January. i target to finish one dulang perday and by the 11th day, i'll finish all dulang.

anyways, as i promised my babes, this is the hasil.

lepas tlg shifa wit her bunga telor semalam, we (myself, shifa & farezah) went to OldTown saje lepak2 and layan meehoon curry. :)

we borak2 and tot of making this thing as our part time biz. heeemmm....

Interesting!

old pics...

taken on February 1980.i am 3 months old.

ni pulak mom.zaman muda2.

hair cut!

after the wedding and the kete kurang aja incident, went to salon at taman desa for hair cut. mom bising rambut dia dh panjang and maidd need one too.

sis terfikir to persuade BigD sekali. bila BigD tgk his jaddah aka mom relax kat kusi potong rambut tu, dia pun relax je lah aggree. :P

mom

dah la pakai sua askar...siap equip pun cam senjata gitu! hahahaha

mom lagik

ha.. ni lah tria aka maid.
note: more stories bout maid later...bila ada mood...

haaa... this is the story of the day....

i am very proud of my BigD. he's such a brave boy.ni lah 1st time dia g salon. selalu ptg rambut kat rumah je.tapi, melalak mcm perang dunia ke 3! habis satu PJ dengar...

but, last saturday, he's such a charming lah...

memula, sumbat dia wit his fav candy dulu...lepas tu dgn relanya dia naik kusi tuh...

cute gila ok!

Khalati's handsome BigD.

kete kurang aja! WPX 6913

kete ni kurang ajar sangat2...

BENCI AH!

sib baik on the way nak jumpa *yezzer*... kalau x, mmg aku bad mood lah!

dia main kuar jer.lepas tu, siap tgk org kot tepi jer. siap cakap (nampak gerak mulut dia), "pompuan, biar lah.."

macam mana tak bengang???

wedding will always be the best place for family to gather

on saturday, ada wedding invitation. from for 4th cousin. i call him Abg Shaher. basically, when it comes to the whole route of family, we're the Sheikh Abd Salim's keturunan.

sheikh abd salim is my great great great great great moyang from Arab whom travels for dakwah and settles down at Padang, Sumatera. he landed in the troop of Kualoh and tie the knot with one of Sultan's daughter.

during the war, my ancestors larikan diri ke tanah melayu with all the kapals and harta benda. they explore the Selama, Perak up to Tebing Tinggi & Bagan Serai. :)

along the way, all the anak cucu kawin dgn all sort of other troop like mendaling and bilah. so, untuk merapatkan balik all the keturunan, and also to maintain the 'darah raja2', by the time sampai level 4th or 5th cousin, they will kawinkan their son/daughter. kawin sedara lah kiranya.

up to my family.. (i mean, our branch lah..not, the whole troop), even my mom's 2nd sis kawin wit her 1st cousin. so, these are all the details yang menyebabkan my family tree adventure seringlah tergendala..he3...(ingat senang ke nak link kan derang ni bila dah kawin sedara)

anyways, the wedding was held at kota damansara. yg excited nya si BigD and LilD lah. derang ber2 ni suka makan nasi orng kawin.x yah lauk pun.hahaaaa...

look at LilD.

them again...

biasalah kalau dh namanya kenduri.mesti ade la yg nak pegi ramai2. so, we went to Aunt1 place first where my uncle & cousin tunggu nak pegi together.

driving...


me & BigD



me & LilD

both BigD & LilD demam sebenarnya.tapi, budak kan? dh namanya berjalan, seronok je lah. yg muncung maknya.hahahahaa....(malas nak xplain..)

Sis
(mau kena sula kalau dia tau i post this pic)



left to right - mom, Aunt1 & CikBedah

clockwise - CikBahar, CikPak & AbgZaini

cuaca punyer lah panas. i do the normal routine mengalahkan orng ade anak bila g wedding. tak sempat nak snap sana sini as i was bz stranded doing something else.sungguh tak best. i wanted to snap pictures. our faces mmg mixed habis. sini ko tgk mcm indon habis..tetiba anak dia ade rupa arab2 sikit. mcm LilD, BIL mcm chinese, sis melayu, tetiba dia cam matsalleh pun ade. and, i cant believe, i missed to snap all that.

clockwise - AbgKotan, Kakak, CikBedah, AbgZaini, mom, KakElya, CikBahar, Aunt2 and Aunt1.

Note: CikBahar & CikBedah are husband & wife and they are also cousins.heheehhe...

ubat dh mula jalan. so, derang dh start lembik.

on my neneks side, this is the only uncle left. he's younger than mom and dats his wife and they have 12 kids!

everytime ade family weddings, i get to feel that my passion in music (esp singing) mmg in the blood lah! :P sumenya kaki nyanyi and kaki music. well, kat bawah ni pic of tuan rumah merangkap bapak pengantin siap nyanyi lagu wajah kesayangan hamba for all guest.

tuan rumah - Abg Shaher

BigD dh penat and buat muka nak ajak balik

LilD pun sama

macam la Khalati (me lah too) korang pedulik kan? ku teruskan jua snapping sikit2 from the kusi i ddk... hehehehehee

AbgKotan, CikPak and lil Amirul kat tgh2. (Ank CikPak no 10)

ntah macam mana, i dpt lepaskan diri ke dalam rumah.yay! dpt gak nak tgk pelamin and jumpa sedara. (sebenrnya bg alasan kat Sis nak panggil Mom.. :P)

sampai dalam rumah tgk my cousin tgh busy amik gamba.JEALOUS!

Abg Zaini tgh snap2..

sempat la jugak i layan borak ngan few cousins.sampai la tiba2 ada budak ni memeranjatkan orang from behind. its ASHWAQ! ya allah! bertahun tak jumpa sepupu yg sorang nih. dari kecik, mmg i am quite close ngan minah yg sorang nih. dia siap ikut jejak i masuk UIA tau.currently she's doing the Masters in Arabic Literature also in UIA.tinggal thesis je lagi.so proud of u sis!

si Ashwaq ni pulak, anak jati Saudi! hahhahaa.. born & raised in Makkah. cakap Arab berabuk gila! sampai kalau mama dia kejut tido pun dia leh jawab 'Thoyib!'. hahahaha...hakikatnya, darah Kualoh! :) stories bout yg ni pulak, later lah yer.kapla dh jam cite sejarah nenek moyang nih.

ni la Ashwaq. i like this pic Ashwaq, masalahnya bergegar lah pulaks.

ha... a better shot.

i had fun lah jugak walaupun panas hati & cuaca.kenapa panas hati? biasalah... malas nak cite kat sini.tapi, mmg menggelegak lah. bukan apa, aku pun ade pride.sesuka hati nak tengking2 tu apa hal? u may not realise it... but, mmg kecik hati. u always think u documented what ppl did to u.ingatlah what goes around, comes around.renung2 kan lah.

lupa lak nak citer.ingat dh nak end kan entry nih.hehehee..

yg jadi MC dat day pun, bukan org lain, sedara jugak. dulu2, selalu gak kutuk mamatMC ni. sekali tgk2 sedara.Amik ko! tu lah, moral of the story, jgn main kutuk orang..selidik dulu. :)

yg pasti, wa tabiklah mamat nih. gila terrer cakap Kualoh.aku pun fail cakap Kualoh tau.he made all the oldies smile and start Kualohing each other. hehehhee...

familiar??

a clearer view...

yes, its Shamsul Ghau Ghau

lunch - cari kain explorace

lunch tadi kuar ngan kak nita, kak zai & hazira. p jalan TAR. nak carik kain untuk baju nikah & reception wedding shifa nanti.

korang tgk minah ni. sib baik smpt amik gamba ikut belakang jer.dia nih i tell u... selamba badak je potong Q we all. walaupun baju dia lawa sweet ala2 angel..tp, budi bahasa..yaAllah! alhamdulillah, cab tu benti kat we all, bukan kat dia walaupun dia kat dpn..Allah maha adil dik!


cuaca punyer lah panas..dari turun building sampai la nak shopping... manusia tak soh cakap lah.i wonder where all of them come from. they don't even wear an office attire. so, they are all on leave? i mean ALL on leave? ramainya manusia!
nak pilih kain pun payah. ni kan pulak nak tolong carikan kain untuk farezah lagik. sorry babe.aku tak pilih pun untuk ko.manusia ramai sangat...nanti aku teman ko eh?




i went to jakel untuk cari matching pair untuk top yg i will wear wit my songket. decided to wear my brown kain songket.tapi, tak nak pakai the existing kebaya top. nanti, trus jadik fragile. so, tadi, g la cari kain untuk match kan dia... lepas tu, give up dgn manusia yg penuh..trus g Kamdar laks. ingat kan kurang manusia..rupanya lagi ramai! tapi, kat tepi tu ade promotion. trus je rembat. bila dh balik nih, like just realise that i'll be wearing songket for shifa's wedding. hehehhehehehe....

ni blouse kak nita.sweet kan?

ni while waiting for kak zai & hazira kat taxi stand

ha...sampai pun derang.. :)

apa pun, i am truly satisfied lah with the material i bought. even its quite kelam kabut in between people and time, but, puas hati.

this is what i'm gonna wear for shifa's nikah

..and this is for her reception night.