Kalau dah jodoh... Itukan rahsia Allah.. (",)

Wahhhhhh tajuuuukkkkkk....
Ni hasil banyak layan mom tengok malay TV series... Ngeh.

Its a very subjective topic. Jangan ada yang siap beli popcorn ke goreng pisang ke ingat ini cerita saya ye. Sesungguhnya bukan. Hehe.
Nice try peeps.. Nice try. ;)

So anyways, I want to share a story. And tujuan nak share ni sebab nak ajak berbincang. And also berkongsi pendapat. Its been a while since the last time I share cerita2 kemanusiaan ni kan?
Kemanusiaan katanya.

Anyways... Nak cerita. I have a kenalan rapat. Seorang kakak yang sangat baik etcs. She devoted herself to the family and what not. Pendek kata she have everything, a good career, a great family, cool circle of friends except JODOH.
She's nearly 60 and not married YET.

Don't judge people.
Paling kepantangan Ayu orang judgemental to those yang belum berkahwin. Pertemuan, maut itu semua kerja Allah.
Tiada jodoh disini, ada disana. Insyaallah.

Bersyarah lak. #eh.

Sambung kembali. Along the way, this kakak actually ada bf. Zaman sesuai untuk dia get married lah. Years ago.
But nak jadi cerita one of her family members doesn't approve their relationship. Moving on... She's still single.
The guy? Married with kids. (Biasa lah tu kan? ;) #oppsss )

*click fast forward button*

The wife passed away. But by now, he got kids, grandchildrens already.

Tak lama lepas the wife passed away, he went to this kakak's house and ask for her hand in marriage.
Tak tanya kakak tu, tanya mak dia terus.
You know all those tak pernah melupakan kind of story.

Yes, alhamdulillah and insyaallah they'll be getting married this Syawal. Alhamdulillah!!!
I'm very sure its the kakak's ultimate happiness. Plus, the guy's family anak2 cucu2 all merestui both of them.

Syukur.

Now, using their scenario. Guna scenario je ye. Bukan pin point pulak.

Wahai perempuan2 di luar sana. If you were the guy's late wife. Apa perasaan you knowing all these years your husband masih ada sekelumit harapan and cinta for his ex?

Sayang mesti lah ada. Orang yang pernah bagi kita happy. Suka duka tu adatlah.

But the fact that he's not devoting himself 100% for you.
Yelah, orang perempuan ni selalunya if dah devote tu means, tak de dah yang lain. Macam mana pedih susah pun... Kita akan setia. Macam mana teruk pun.. We will always remain focus kan?
Ker.... Terlalu subjective untuk bagi such statement??

*bukak metro baca memacam perihal perempuan now yang memeningkan*

Ok. Salah judge kot. :)

And the kakak. She must be over the moon now kan????? I can seeeeeee... She's so so happppyyyyyyyy....
MasyaAllah!!!!

For the guy pulak.
Apa perasaan dia eh?
Dia tak sayang langsung ke kat his late wife?
But fikir balik, physically dia tak menduakan wife dia pun. Dah passed away baru dia nak cari balik his ex.
Mungkin dia hanya mendua his emotion.

Makan hati.

Above all... Siapa sangka kan?

Kalau jodoh memang takkan kemana....

Enjoy your weekends peeps!

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