Kalau dah jodoh... Itukan rahsia Allah.. (",)

Wahhhhhh tajuuuukkkkkk....
Ni hasil banyak layan mom tengok malay TV series... Ngeh.

Its a very subjective topic. Jangan ada yang siap beli popcorn ke goreng pisang ke ingat ini cerita saya ye. Sesungguhnya bukan. Hehe.
Nice try peeps.. Nice try. ;)

So anyways, I want to share a story. And tujuan nak share ni sebab nak ajak berbincang. And also berkongsi pendapat. Its been a while since the last time I share cerita2 kemanusiaan ni kan?
Kemanusiaan katanya.

Anyways... Nak cerita. I have a kenalan rapat. Seorang kakak yang sangat baik etcs. She devoted herself to the family and what not. Pendek kata she have everything, a good career, a great family, cool circle of friends except JODOH.
She's nearly 60 and not married YET.

Don't judge people.
Paling kepantangan Ayu orang judgemental to those yang belum berkahwin. Pertemuan, maut itu semua kerja Allah.
Tiada jodoh disini, ada disana. Insyaallah.

Bersyarah lak. #eh.

Sambung kembali. Along the way, this kakak actually ada bf. Zaman sesuai untuk dia get married lah. Years ago.
But nak jadi cerita one of her family members doesn't approve their relationship. Moving on... She's still single.
The guy? Married with kids. (Biasa lah tu kan? ;) #oppsss )

*click fast forward button*

The wife passed away. But by now, he got kids, grandchildrens already.

Tak lama lepas the wife passed away, he went to this kakak's house and ask for her hand in marriage.
Tak tanya kakak tu, tanya mak dia terus.
You know all those tak pernah melupakan kind of story.

Yes, alhamdulillah and insyaallah they'll be getting married this Syawal. Alhamdulillah!!!
I'm very sure its the kakak's ultimate happiness. Plus, the guy's family anak2 cucu2 all merestui both of them.

Syukur.

Now, using their scenario. Guna scenario je ye. Bukan pin point pulak.

Wahai perempuan2 di luar sana. If you were the guy's late wife. Apa perasaan you knowing all these years your husband masih ada sekelumit harapan and cinta for his ex?

Sayang mesti lah ada. Orang yang pernah bagi kita happy. Suka duka tu adatlah.

But the fact that he's not devoting himself 100% for you.
Yelah, orang perempuan ni selalunya if dah devote tu means, tak de dah yang lain. Macam mana pedih susah pun... Kita akan setia. Macam mana teruk pun.. We will always remain focus kan?
Ker.... Terlalu subjective untuk bagi such statement??

*bukak metro baca memacam perihal perempuan now yang memeningkan*

Ok. Salah judge kot. :)

And the kakak. She must be over the moon now kan????? I can seeeeeee... She's so so happppyyyyyyyy....
MasyaAllah!!!!

For the guy pulak.
Apa perasaan dia eh?
Dia tak sayang langsung ke kat his late wife?
But fikir balik, physically dia tak menduakan wife dia pun. Dah passed away baru dia nak cari balik his ex.
Mungkin dia hanya mendua his emotion.

Makan hati.

Above all... Siapa sangka kan?

Kalau jodoh memang takkan kemana....

Enjoy your weekends peeps!

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Bubur Herba... nyumsss

Got bored with rice?

Tak tau nak masak apa?

Jom beli ni...

Bubur herba by Faiza.
alah sama brand dengan Beras Faiza tu... dia ada gak jual Herba Rempah ni...

Senang je nak buat dia...

Mula2, basuh campuran beras dan bijirin dalam pack tu...

 Masukkan air secukupnya...
Air kena banyak ok. Sebab, ni bubur. Lepas tu nak bagi lembut the bijirin kekacang semua tu jugak...
Kang ada lak tersumbing gigi tu kang.




Sementara dia agak2 dah mengembang tu, masukkan ayam/daging/ikan bilis/udang kering.
ayu, guna ikan bilis. and kiub ikan bilis as well...




Kacau rata and lepas tu masukkan kismis and rempah herba yang also in the pack..
gaul rata and biar kan sekejap...

 bila dah menggelegak... adjust garam / perasa / pepper ....
rasa and adjust ikut citarasa masing2...

and bila dah agak2 ikut kepekatan bubur ikut suka korang... tutup la api..

amik mangkuk, hidang and tabur bawang goreng...

serves hot.

sedap!

mak!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
jom makan!!!!!!!!

:D

Blurbings By,

Aduhai penyewa...

Mom got a land at Puchong and she build dalam empat pintu rumah sewa.

Jangan nak menganga mulut tu sangat, rumah kecik je. Ala rumah murah tu. Satu pintu ada dua bilik and satu bilik air.

Mom decided to build rumah sewa ni pun dengan tujuan sekali harung supaya tanah ni tak terbiar macam tu sahaja...plus dapat la pocket money sikit for her monthly.

My mom kan dulu bekerja... dia dah biasa bekerja... now dah rileks lepak ni... dia jadi boring.. 

But lately due to health umur etcs...

Anak2 kenalah take over tolong sesama pergi round buat spot check... round mengutip sewa all.

But 2012 has been really menyakitkan hati for all of us.

Especially mom lah.

Orang2 yang menyewa tahun ni ramai orang bujang. duduk satu rumah maximum we all bagi empat orang sahaja... but bila datang spot check satu rumah sampai enam motor. Need I say more?

Earlier, kami hanya amik orang berkeluarga sahaja yang duduk menyewa, but tu lah as their family expanding, of course lah semua pun nak cari rumah lain.

Masa family duduk kurang la masalah nya.... 

Tempat terjaga, sewa tak parah.

Yelah, siapa nak kawasan tak elok etc untuk anak bini duduk kan?

But bila we have to take these bujangans all...

masyaallah sangat menduga iman dan kesabaran.

Kita ada sign agreement. Penyerahan kunci, deposit etcs.

Sewa rumah kena bank in or hand over to us paling lambat 7hb the following month. Hujung bulan is very much appreciated tq.

Bulan pertama:

"Mak Cik sewa kitaorang tak masukkan lagi sebab toilet ada masalah. Kita tolak dari sewa lah untuk repair ye.."

Pointnya disini... keadaan rumah dalam keadaan baik sebelum derang masuk. Semuanya dah dicheck everytime ada orang keluar.

So, I told them... kalau betul you all takde duit, kita share half2 sebab bukan kami yang guna sampai rosak.

end of month one.

Bulan kedua:

"Mak cik saya balik kampung ada hal. Nanti saya balik KL saya serahkan sewa. Lambat sikit la tapi..."

I told him, what about budak2 lain.? Bank in their portion first and your portion bank in lepas you come back from kampung.

Call tak berangkat. Sms tak berreply.

Called the other boys... "Kami semua dah kumpul serah kat xxxx"...

Nice.

Sewa di bank in hujung bulan yang suppose paid for 3rd month.

End of month two.

Bulan ketiga:

Rumah kosong.

Derang lari.

And left us with this.

Tell me.
How am I suppose to kesian or not angry?
Dah la tinggal rumah tak berkunci.
Siap dinding berconteng.

How?
How?
Now, to repair all.
No way ada yang nak menyewa like this.

Pfftttt...

Blurbings By,

In this community...

We all looked the same.
Literally lah.

We have a face, body.
Rambut asalnya sama hitam. But masing2 ada yang tukar jadi blonde, hazel, red and etcs.

Apa yang buat kita berbeza?
Perbezaan pendapat, akal fikiran, cara berfikir.

Allah hu akbar.
Hebat kan ciptaan Allah?

Otak kita mungkin nampak sama serupa tapi setiap satu berfungsi dengan unique.
Allah cipta dengan akal, yang berlainan setiap satu darinya.

Tapi, dengan akal yang kita semua ada ni, adakah kita menggunakannya dengan betul?

Ada elemen lain terlibat... Perasaan, emosi.
Again, semuanya sangat unique.

Sedih kerana marah.
Sedih kerana sayang.
Sedih kerana cemburu.
Sedih kerana pilu.

Marah kerana sedih.
Marah kerana sayang.
Marah kerana cemburu.
Marah kerana dengki.

Dengki kerana cemburu.
Dengki kerana persaingan.

Persaingan sihat?
Persaingan kurang sihat?

Semuanya inter related.
And semuanya bersebab apabila terjadi.

Semua perkara terjadi for a reason.

Which leads to a....
Bad decision to a good intention.

Yang penting, jangan menghukum.
Itu hak mutlak Allah SWT.

We have to keep on going.
Keep on forgiving and forgetting.
Keep on learning.

(",)


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What I've learned today

Today is indeed the most valuable 24hours (excluding my sleeping hours) I had in my life.

Because why?

I learned to a accept my flaws. Dengan penuh redha and cool.

Memang betul orang kata. Truth hurts. But the moment I heard it.. The confession. Terus tarik nafas dalam2 and bersyukur ada yang masih sudi menegur.

Menegur.
Bukan memaki.
Bukan menghamun.

MENEGUR.

Bukan belakang2.
But straight to my face.

It hurts.
Bergenang la jugak air mata.
Berubah jugaklah muka.

But when I calm myself down.
I realise.

Alhamdulillah.

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SMALL WORLD OF TINY PEOPLE

Got this from forwarded email.

AWESOME!