Friday, September 24, 2010

Arguments & me...

al sakit al kepala datang menyerang pulak...
rasanya satu ni jelah nampaknya entry esok kot...
baru lah nak keep up to the pace... isk..

anyways, this entry dah memang ada dalam draft actually...
berapa abad dah entah. ngeh.. but of course, kita kasi brush up sikit sana sini.. nasi2 tambah sikit.. ha.. siap lah satu entry.
and yes, its a membebel entry.. no pictures. :P

sejujurnya, kalau ditanya to each of you, definitely no one suka with arguments kan?
because..

1. ego tercabar bila pendapat kita tak sehaluan dengan the other party.
2. kita nak menang. ngeh ngeh.
3. kita rasa other party tu punya pendapat poyo sangat.. and tak kena dengan tekak kita.
4. kita rasa kita punya idea lagi bombastic meletop lagi bagus.


and ayu personally, tak suka arguments sebab bising. hahahaha...
and the after effect like bermasam muka... memerli2 each other and ungkit2 light2..
ha.. itu yang ayu tak suka.

but i don't mind discussions.
memang betul, arguments tu pun actually bermula dari discussion.. but i think masyarakat kita kena learn to listen as well.
because, all that i see, bila kita discuss, kita dah set kat kepala jawapan yang kita nak.. jadinya, when we open the topic for discussion, and others started to give their opinion, kita pun sama2 sibuk nak nak bagi opinion kita siap ada add on dengan peninggian suara and also kekerasan fakta.
if the more the merrier and more heads are better than one.. kenapa kita bantai set jawapan dah siap2.. no point discussing then.
betul tak?
might as well, we announce the decision rather than asking opinions.

to those that knows me.. definitely tau.. i'm always the natural party.

if i can elakkan argument, i will. even at that point, the whole thing was against my own opinion. (unless i'm the subject matter lah).
but before ayu main setuju tu, i always ask the reason and justification. masuk dek akal.. ok jalan.. kalau macam tersasar jauh.. i would explain the reason behind. nak terima, amik.. tak nak terima.. terpulang.

paling saya selalu orang tak puas hati dengan saya.. kalau argument tu, melibatkan ayu.. i will always.. just diam and said.. "apa2 lah.. ayu ikut je"
hahahaaa..
lepas tu, lagi orang marah....
hehehe...

tak best la gaduh2...
best ke??
tapi sekali sekala gaduh boleh laa... kan?

biasa lah.. i love world peace.. apa boleh buat..
(feeling miss universe for 2 seconds... NOT!)



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4 comments:

Liza said...

tapi masa argue sambil makan cupcakes best kan...jgn marah yer ayu, saja nak ngusik

mya said...

sekali sekala gaduh ok per.. dpt mengeratkan lagi tali silaturrahim sbb masing2 tegur kesilapan masing2.. :)

btw, i baru update citer open house kakred. berjaman kan..

qistynacorner said...

setiap bende ade baik buruk nyer, kdg2 argue tu mengeratkan hubungan... lau asyik argue & kite asyik ngalah jer mana leh...heheheh

eLLy said...

Akak pun same .. ape ape sajee ;D