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Kerana...

Kerana apa?
Ceh ceh ceh.. Creative habis la konon tu start ayat konon power eh? Tajuk konon mendebarkan, eh?

No lah...
Pagi2 ni sebelum nak mandi and siap to work, Ayu terpanggil nak tulis kejap on kerana 'assumptions'...

Assumptions ni, bahaya ok. Salah anggap, salah faham, miscommunications, misunderstood, semuanya berpunca dari assumptions.

Bila manusia mula assume, derang buat conclusion. Bila buat conclusion, they tend to share their thoughts and opinions with others... And what happen next? The truth tetap tidak diketahui...

Kesian tak mangsa yang diassume tu?

Ayu tak nak bagi contoh Ahmad Ali Jenab or Bedah yang bukan nama sebenar lah ye.. Ayu nak bagi contoh apa yang jadi dekat Ayu sendiri.. :)

Siapa yang pernah jumpa Ayu, sure akan bagi 1st remark (kalau belum kenal) .. "Eeeeiii garangnya muka dia..macam sombong jeeeeee"...

Pastu, kalau first time jumpa kat majlis where I'm ready with a smile and all, the remark will be.. "Ceria la Ayu tu... Gelak je... "

Cuba korang campak Ayu in an argument... Percaya atau tidak, Ayu lah manusia paling senyap dalam muka bumi ni.
...And bila Ayu senyap macam tu, orang tak tau what's in my mind.. People will start assuming right on my face, there and then.. "Tu dendam la tu..pendam la tu.. Jangan simpan2 la.. Nak cakap apa, cakap sekarang.."

Masalahnya, korang tau tak kenapa I choose to diam?
Sebab, bila tengah argue, manusia dalam keadaan marah.. Bila tengah marah, people tend to say things that they don't meant.

Dan resam manusia, ayat2 pedih menusuk laser itu lah yang akan diingati sampai mati...
Which also akan buat orang yang bercakap tu menyesal sampai mati gak la...

Sebab tu Ayu pilih untuk diam. Lagipun dok pong pang bagai pun, bukannya selesai masalah tu pun.. Eloklah tunggu cool down and bawak berbincang...

So,what say korang lak?

Assume ni tak bagus kan?
Jumping into conclusion tu, tak baik kan?



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Happy Mother's Day.. :)

Mom was not really in a good mood yesterday morning.

Seriusly.. sampai ayu pun tersentap bila wish dia but tak dilayannya...

But kita as anak, apa lagi yang boleh kita buat..urut dada.. layan jelah pilu tu sengsorang...

korang ingat, korang je ada mood swing kan? sabar je laaaahhh.....

Wished sis as well and my sis pun blank bila tengok mom's mood was really OFF. Totally OFF.

( I think I want to blame the Tanyalah Ustad Program entitled "Pengorbanan Ibu".. ) - no, not that the show is not good but somehow it flashes back her tough days bringing both of us up.. (which I shall not reveal)

So anyways, my bothDs is always the 'charm' at home. And yes, call it child abuse or what ever but we uses them to get back mom's mood on track.

Hehe.

And, we won.

:p

(Bukan susah nak pancing nenek2 ni kannn...??? Teehheeeeheee)

And she requested for breakfast lunch and dinner..

I cooked fried spagetthi for breakfast, sis & BIL bought her favourite tosei, sis cooked her favourite dish for lunch and she requested for a Chicken Chop for dinner.

We spent the day at home, watching TV, nagging the kids, laugh a little here and there and after Asar, semua siap for Chicken Chop for the Royal Queen (that's what my bothDs call their Jaddah yesterday)

Punyalah lama tak kuar makan sama yang diluar kawasan liputan, semua orang setuju sebulat suara when I suggested Colesium Cafe at Jalan Tunku Abdul Rahman.. (was hoping for a rejection actually..haha)

sis, BIL & bothDs

sis and her kids

mom & her Son-In-Law

Food always nailed it lah!

Everyone was a happy individual during and after good food...

hehe...

tak percaya?

nak bukti??

mom and her Sizzling Chicken

sis and her sterloin steak

BIL and his Sizzling Rib Eye

and..my Chinese Style Chicken Chop.

Well, actually mine was the Sizzling Chicken.. but the moment they serve the dish with all the fire, asap and what not.. the Royal Queen puts her hand up high saying that's her dish.

its mother's day..not daughter's day.. beralah la ye.

adoyai.

mom was so satisfied with her Sizzling Chicken that she cut small pieces for everyone to taste.

and of course without warning us that its freaking sizzling hot!

poor sis.. tak pasal melecur lidah.

hehe...

overall.. alhamdulillah, Mother's Day ends well for us.

Both mommies at my crib happy and kenyang.

hehe..

Happy Mother's Day again to all mothers out there.

to me, everyday is Mother's Day.

Appreciate them while they're still around...

for atleast think of it this way, you wouldn't want your children to do anything not good to you, right?

Its Karma and whats goes around, comes around.

I Love you Mak, always do..

Love you too Ta.. xoxo

p/s: even if both of you are cranky. hehe

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puhlis lah

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haha

gotcha!

Blurbings By,

love

"Sorry, you can't photoshop ugly personality"

nuff said.

hehe.

Blurbings By,

Happiest Thursday so far... :)

I've been quite tight up with datelines at work. Kadang2 rasa macam nak hempok2 je diri sendiri sebab macam lambatnya siapkan keje.. ko kenapa lembab sangat wei???

padahal..................................................................................... keje memang banyak. sobs.

so anyways, ada perjanjian in between my friend and kak red that sekali gus melibatkan saya juga ke KLCC semalam. Manusia macam saya yang tengah kejar dateline, kalau orang ajak keluar memang gedik dia lain macam ye... as if like .. "owhhh worlllddddd i neeedddd fresh aiiirrrrrrrr"... :D

so i said yes.

(nak cakap tu je actually)

mana? Madam Kwan.

kak red

nak tengok apa kami makan?

tengok je lah mampu share.. bukan tak ingat nak bagi semawa kat korang but tak kesampaian...

niat ada, dah kira ok la kan??

Kak Red's Nasi Bojari

My friend's Chicken Chop

(portion besar nak mampos)

My Fish Noodle Soup

Borak punya borak.. mak merah tangan memang tak pernah nak lepas from BB la kan? tengah makan pun bossnya dok email memacam.. isk isk isk...

sekali tetiba dia cakap..

"malam ni IB jom? tengok concert"

i was like... huh????

concert apa???

jom la..... akak dapat tix ni...

malam ni eh? confirm eh??

VETO kooooooooooooooooooooo.....

mampu sengih2 angguk2 je.

:P

mau tak sengih2 angguk... mak merah belanja lunch tau.. lepas tu bawak lak gi concert.. hehe

thanks for the lunch mak... xoxo

after semua kembali pulang menyambung mencari nafkah... makanya after Maghrib, berjumpa lah kami again this time together with Sid as well kat Istana Budaya...

to watch??

West End Stars In Concert you all....

frankly, i know what to expect.

i terms of music and vocal and the awesomeness etcs.

butttttttttt... what i don't know is.. the choice of songs.

sangat main peranan ok.. sebab bukan semua Malaysians layan Phantom of the Opera kindda thing.

but so what kan? the three of them are hot and enchanted enough.

i know some how it will be mesmerizing.

Kak Red & Sid

(sid tu nak nebeng apa ntah.. ada la tu)

its a media night.

makanya camera ke video ke semua adalah dibenarkan.....

tetapi................................................................

i can't hold a thing bila Stephen Rahman-Hughes, Ramin Karimloo and Simon Bailey opens their mouth.

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and the songs....

tak nak cerita lah.. u guys better grab your seat now here!!! i said NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!

nuff said.

i didnt even blinked.

my jaw drop each songs changed.

belum la part derang main senyum2 sweet angkat2 kening.

(ok tu dah lain)

Ramin Karimloo, Stephen Rahman-Hughes and Simon Bailey

I'm still humming the track from God's Father sampai pagi ni... oh my!!!

best ok... seriusly best....

and masa time hujung2 the go for rock numbers... nasib baik la ku pakai baju kurung.. duduk memang dah tak diam la kan...

jari tak payah cerita.. tinggal tak de drum betul je depan mata...

sekali..selamba.. they said Good Bye.

What??!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you can't just give me all the awesomeness and walk away like that, kan?

aku bakar IB tu kang... haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.....

gimic bebeh.. gimic.

derang keluar again and tutup tirai with Fantasia Bulan Madu..

yes, you read that right.. a MALAY number.

finale yang teramat sangat indah meletop best terbaik!

ha.. apa lagi perkataan boleh guna...

satu hall sing along... satu hall standing ovation.

what more can i say.

manusia2 yang humming fantasia bulan madu sampai ke parking

(thanks fr the tix kak red)

so korang.. its only two days.. malam ni and malam esok...

go swipe your credit card now! its a show that you must not miss!

go go!!!!!!!

owh again.. click here for details..

i nak sambung berangan tapau bawak balik mamat bertiga tu..

Blurbings By,

Happy Birthday Abang Iparku!

Allah selamatkan kamuuuuuu

Allah selamatkan kamuuuuuu

Allah selamatkan abang iparku....

Allah selamatkan kamuuuuuu

Dear BIL,

Happy 42nd birthday

May Allah bless you with the best of..

iman

faith

good health

barakah rezk

happiness

love

patience and

taqwa...

Semoga panjang umur dan dimurahkan rezeki senantiasa...

Amin.

Enjoy your day.. have a blast!

Happy Birthday sid@mayangkelapa !!

Happy Birthday to you...

Happy Birthday to you...

Happy Birthday to sidddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd...

Happy Birthday to you...

Babe,

May Allah bless you with lots of happiness, love, courage, good health, blessed wealth, iman, faith and everything that the world could offer and the hereafter you could bring.

Thank you for always being there when i needed most.. especially on the meroyan-i-need-to-BBM-someone now!!! hehe

TQ RM for this #rmgbm...

:)

Have a blast babe..

Hehe

Dalàm dunia ni.....
Memang susah untuk seorang individu memahami seorang individu yang lain...

Sebab tu, we are all unique individuals.

But we could atleast try to put ourself in that persons shoe to atleast try to understand...

Hidup ni kan ke bermasyarakat...
Hidup ni kan bersociety...

Tapi ayu observe kita manusia ni..memang tak pernah nya puas hati...

Kadang2 or actually most of the time..kita terlalu mementingkan diri sendiri..

Cuba kita kaji and look back dulu kenapa perkara tu terjadi...
Setiap benda ada sebabnya...
Setiap benda ada puncanya...
Dan setiap yang terjadi ada hikmahnya...

Jangan pulak cari sebab and punca and jadikannya sebagai punca untuk senang kita persalahkan...



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Communication...

Hari hari sabtu ni.. Selamba bagi topic ala artikel kan?
Otak ni memang 24-7 bekerja la now a days.. Ada je benda yang nak difikirkan. Sampai benda tak payah nak fikir pun dibantai fikirkan jugak...
(Entah apa2 kan?)

So anyways, rasa macam nak cakap pasal communication la today..

I've been really annoyyed by the way and the mode of communication people used now a days.
As much as zaman dah berubah.. So does everthing else.
Its just not the same anymore...

Kita guna contoh child-parents communication lah ye...

Back then:
Kalau kita nakal kat rumah orang, mak kita jegil and bagi body language je.. Terus kita maintain and behave..

But now:
Budak tu datang balik tanya ... "Why mama? What happen to your eyes? Kenapa mama tengok macam tu?"

Get it?
Segalanya berubah mengikut peredaran zaman..

Same goes dengan segala jenis komunikasi dengan manusia2 lain. Kalau dulu, surat khabar, berita television tu adalah segalanya.. But now we the internet, facebook and twitter...

Contohnya gossip, tau kat twitter dulu.. Esok keluar entertainment blog and forums..weekend eloboration dalam Melodi. Ha gitu.

Dengan kawan2 pun sama.
Segalanya berubah. Dari kawan sekolah..kita communicate masa kat sekolah je.. If ada perlu call phone rumah.. Lepas tu masing2 sambung belajar mula ada handphone.. Bermula pulak zaman sms.. Lepas tu email.. Group pulak.. Lepas tu ada facebook.. Lepas tu jumpa kat gathering.. Alumni.. And bila sume dah kahwin start la jumpa pun time raya ke, birthday party anak2 ke.. Etc etc etc....

Things change.

That's the main point here.

Macam me and my sis.. We're 9 years apart. The way she ask for favor dullluuuuuu is definitely different from now.
Dulu I don't share secrets about boys with her..takut dia report kat my mom.. But now..dengan my mom sekali join bergossip...
Hahahahah...

Tapi itu lah...
Ada lagi manusia yang masih di takuk lama..
Tak nak terima perubahan..
Menidakkan perubahan..

Bukan nya nak suruh melupakan yang lama.. Tak langsung.. Cuma perubahan yang membawa kebaikan.. Perlu kita adapt..

Hormat tetap perlu..
Sesama manusia... Hormat is the ultimate...
Dengan hormat, automatically hati terjaga, hubungan pun terjalin...

So, jangan selalu bersangka buruk ye..
Mari kita semua bersangka baik...

(Hehe....)

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